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missblyss | My ex husband attempted to kidnap our daughter last night. Had to contact the police and am now in the process of getting a restraining order. It all happened so fast, he was getting in my face like he was gonna hit me, yelling at me, berating me, calling me names all in front of my 2 year old.. Then he told me "I'm taking her" and picked her up and attempted to leave. I screamed for my neighbors to call 911 and he put her down and ran. |
Isa | Oh my god, this is terrible. I hope you and your daughter are safe now. Wishing you the best! (I think you should post your transits and progressions) |
Leonisces | Omg! Terrible! I am with you miss, sending you positive energy right now. Hope everything will turn out well. Stay strong!This mutable grand square currently is shaking everyone 😟 |
missblyss | I am shaken by this, I am trying not to breakdown. I feel like his family is in a war against me trying to protect him and he is the criminal here. I genuinely did nothing to him. I told him to get out of my house because he was screaming at me in front of my daughter.
I posted about it on FB because I was scared he was going to do something and I thought it would give me some sort of protection by letting my friends know. His sister commented telling me "You are so immature for posting this publicly, there are two sides to every story and I know you probably did something too." |
lalalinda | Stay safe and get together a support system where friends and/or neighbors can keep an eye (or ear) out for each other, just so there's no trouble. Protect yourself missblyss, get some pepper spray. Your back-up plan. ------------------ Don't look back, you're not going that way. |
missblyss | Thank you, that is a good idea. I am feeling sort of down. I have only a small number of close friends, family, and work buddies on FB. I made a post after the incident letting everyone know what happened; I felt his family and my family needed to be updated, that it would help keep me safe having them informed. HIs sister comments saying "We all have problems with our exs but aren't as immature as you to post this publicly. There are two sides to every story and I am sure you aren't innocent." |
bonsai | quote: Originally posted by missblyss: HIs sister comments saying "We all have problems with our exs but aren't as immature as you to post this publicly. There are two sides to every story and I am sure you aren't innocent."
Funny. I bet she wouldn't say that if it weren't about her brother. If it were a friend of hers saying that about a random guy she'd offer her support immediately, but once it's about a family member, suddenly there are two sides to every story. |
missblyss | quote: Originally posted by bonsai: Funny. I bet she wouldn't say that if it weren't about her brother. If it were a friend of hers saying that about a random guy she'd offer her support immediately, but once it's about a family member, suddenly there are two sides to every story.
No, she never would. This has been the worst thing to happen to me in my life! My daughter has never been alone with her dad, he is not very involved.. and to think that he almost took her? just like that? It is kidnapping. |
VirgoPILL | instead of talking some sense into her brother... smh i really hope this won't escalate further. stay safe missblyss! |
florence | the best thing I ever did was when I finally allowed practical realities and love for my family to intercede in how I hoped things could be with my children's father. It takes time but I now finally feel luckier than most other parents. I'd get so profoundly upset by him but now I don't have to have the constant upset of seeing him to exchange parenting - in fact I feel in some ways I was protected from that more long drawn out battle by a - nevertheless - pretty heart wrenching period of time. Just envision being happy and it will be possible when you're not trying to envision that with him. |
missblyss | quote: Originally posted by florence: the best thing I ever did was when I finally allowed practical realities and love for my family to intercede in how I hoped things could be with my children's father. It takes time but I now finally feel luckier than most other parents. I'd get so profoundly upset by him but now I don't have to have the constant upset of seeing him to exchange parenting - in fact I feel in some ways I was protected from that more long drawn out battle by a - nevertheless - pretty heart wrenching period of time. Just envision being happy and it will be possible when you're not trying to envision that with him.
thank you for the response sister. TBH, I am past the point of thinking of him and what he and I could be or were.. Like, this genuinely crossed a line within me that has changed my whole perspective of our relationship. I no longer can even toy around with any idea of a future with him. I gladly think of finding myself a stable man who will be a better father figure for my daughter. May I ask you, did you need to get a restraining order / secure full legal custody or anything like that?? This situation is scary, but I just have faith that the courts will recognize the truth in the situation. |
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Violets | Missblyss, am I recalling correctly that your ex has Scorpio placements? Mars is moving retrograde through Scorpio right now, so if he does, whatever house that would be in would be affected, and whatever planet(s) he has in Scorpio. Mars is currently touching nothing in hard aspect to my chart or my husband's chart, but we've both been hit by just...a lot of craziness, as far as too many things going on at once, phone calls and texts all day from different people/agencies, etc. It's been this way for most people I know, and if Mars is hitting any of their personal planets, the temper is definitely there. I'm sorry you had to deal with such a terrifying and traumatizing experience, and I hope that he can get his emotions straight so that you and your daughter can feel safe. |
missblyss | He has scorpio ascendant with pluto in the first house... I am so afraid my friends, it is so scary for me to go up against him. I have known him to do awful things to others, to try to poison people, to break into their homes, etc.. Now I pray and hope he would not be so stupid to do something to me when everyone would know it was him... |
Violets | Is there somewhere else you can stay, where he wouldn't be able to find you, until you feel safe? |
fireopal09 | Unfriend his sister and restrict ex's family on FB. What he did was attempted kidnapping. I don't know if you filed a report or if you can after the fact. However, your neighbors are witnesses as you shouted out for help. If they witnessed it and are willing to come forward, it adds credibility to your case. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST |